A soul friend provides: sanctuary, a safe place to reveal, to ponder, to learn and confess so that the words may be heard in the audible way - making us more aware of our sins and accountibility.
In today's society, we lack safe places and we often grow restless in our spirits. We are afraid to voice our honest questions because of fear of condemnation. An amamchara can help.
The amamchara asks questions and listens well. In essence, they enable a person to hear from God, listen to God, and walk the life of faith better.
It is not a good thing to be your own guide...