Discipleship is all about relationships so the process will look different for everyone, but am I being intentional? Do I ask for specific guidance in WHO the Lord might want me to connect with?
Here are some questions I might ask in determining if a a relationship needs to take the next step into discipleship.  
- How well does this person comprehend the magnification of the life of Jesus?
 - What doubts fill her mind?
 - What blocks her understanding?
 - What might she be afraid of?
 - Lord, how can I nudge her forward into your purpose for her life?
 - Do I need to call her and see how she's doing? (make the first move).
 - Is there something specific I should invite her to do with me?